Soon enough you will be at a 7, not a 9.5!
This will essentially stretch out your orgasm graph, and give you more time.
Once you feel yourself get back up to a 9.5, just repeat the process.
At first, this may only add 30 seconds to a minute, but it will start to add up to even more time.
And as you become more advanced at controlling yourself you’ll be able to go from a 9.5 to a 5!